Unspoken Words vs Silence

I've always wondered “What is so different about the unspoken words and silence?”

Is it really important to speak something then remain silent, ALWAYS? I m confused.. totally confused.. does it really make a difference or makes things worst...

Thought about this a lot, only thing which came to my mind is.. depends on the situation. If it is something which could make the relations bitter, which we do not want, its always better to be silent and be SILENT... if your loved once know you.. they will understand it.. if they dont, ur words will only be creating a hitch in them about it.

I have always realized that it is so difficult to maintain a relation, may it be parents, siblings, friends or lover.

With parents you fight, you care, without even thinking if something happens will they come back to you or vice versa, in majority of the cases its same with siblings. Lover, you can always sit with them and clear the situation, if they trust in you, would definitely respect your words. Then why is it so different with friends and ….. Why is that sometimes we loose our mind and do not respect the words and emotions of a friend, being a very good friend...

If there is an argument within the friends, where you do not wanna be partial to any of them, neither do loose the trust within any of them, and you have a responsibility to be adhered to specific to one of them followed by another one with other and the so called argument is all about this responsibility, what would one do? I believe in “Sometimes we need to take tough decisions”. People think that the opposite person has not thought about anything, is it really true? I dont think so, it was just that I dint wanted to be partial, and take the side of one.

I wanted to speak right there, but....... just followed what I wanted to do... completed both of my responsibilities without communicating about it as they can see what I was doing.... Felt good for both of them, but believe me, none of them are happy and want to clear the glitch. Now removing that glitch has only one solution to it, speak the unspoken words to each other and clear it off man.... whats so egoistic about it.... we are Friends, and S**t happens....

Now be it my Attitude or My Ego or my trait of being silent and doing what I want to do.... I dont know... I really dont... but I dont really care of what people think about me.. I just wanna be known as a good human being from my act.. Dont wanna hurt anyone, give my best to whoever requires it..