A thought just creeped in when a friend of mine asked this question, “Life is Unpredictable or Death?”
I was silent for couple of seconds with lots of thought crawling into my mind within those fractions of second & stopped at one “Death is the absence of Life”. Death happens in life, which means Death is an event which happens during our Life period. No one knows when they are gonna die, but everyone knows that they are living.
Is Life unpredictable, YES and we all know that. The events which happen in our life are unpredictable, which defines our lives.
Is Death unpredictable? Yes, it is.
But as mentioned, death is an EVENT in life, which has to happen.
Now another question is coming to my mind, neither the Life (which could also be BIRTH) nor the Death is predictable, are we living in an imaginary world???
What you guys have to say about it?
Monday, January 18, 2010
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Unspoken Words vs Silence
I've always wondered “What is so different about the unspoken words and silence?”
Is it really important to speak something then remain silent, ALWAYS? I m confused.. totally confused.. does it really make a difference or makes things worst...
Thought about this a lot, only thing which came to my mind is.. depends on the situation. If it is something which could make the relations bitter, which we do not want, its always better to be silent and be SILENT... if your loved once know you.. they will understand it.. if they dont, ur words will only be creating a hitch in them about it.
I have always realized that it is so difficult to maintain a relation, may it be parents, siblings, friends or lover.
With parents you fight, you care, without even thinking if something happens will they come back to you or vice versa, in majority of the cases its same with siblings. Lover, you can always sit with them and clear the situation, if they trust in you, would definitely respect your words. Then why is it so different with friends and ….. Why is that sometimes we loose our mind and do not respect the words and emotions of a friend, being a very good friend...
If there is an argument within the friends, where you do not wanna be partial to any of them, neither do loose the trust within any of them, and you have a responsibility to be adhered to specific to one of them followed by another one with other and the so called argument is all about this responsibility, what would one do? I believe in “Sometimes we need to take tough decisions”. People think that the opposite person has not thought about anything, is it really true? I dont think so, it was just that I dint wanted to be partial, and take the side of one.
I wanted to speak right there, but....... just followed what I wanted to do... completed both of my responsibilities without communicating about it as they can see what I was doing.... Felt good for both of them, but believe me, none of them are happy and want to clear the glitch. Now removing that glitch has only one solution to it, speak the unspoken words to each other and clear it off man.... whats so egoistic about it.... we are Friends, and S**t happens....
Now be it my Attitude or My Ego or my trait of being silent and doing what I want to do.... I dont know... I really dont... but I dont really care of what people think about me.. I just wanna be known as a good human being from my act.. Dont wanna hurt anyone, give my best to whoever requires it..
Is it really important to speak something then remain silent, ALWAYS? I m confused.. totally confused.. does it really make a difference or makes things worst...
Thought about this a lot, only thing which came to my mind is.. depends on the situation. If it is something which could make the relations bitter, which we do not want, its always better to be silent and be SILENT... if your loved once know you.. they will understand it.. if they dont, ur words will only be creating a hitch in them about it.
I have always realized that it is so difficult to maintain a relation, may it be parents, siblings, friends or lover.
With parents you fight, you care, without even thinking if something happens will they come back to you or vice versa, in majority of the cases its same with siblings. Lover, you can always sit with them and clear the situation, if they trust in you, would definitely respect your words. Then why is it so different with friends and ….. Why is that sometimes we loose our mind and do not respect the words and emotions of a friend, being a very good friend...
If there is an argument within the friends, where you do not wanna be partial to any of them, neither do loose the trust within any of them, and you have a responsibility to be adhered to specific to one of them followed by another one with other and the so called argument is all about this responsibility, what would one do? I believe in “Sometimes we need to take tough decisions”. People think that the opposite person has not thought about anything, is it really true? I dont think so, it was just that I dint wanted to be partial, and take the side of one.
I wanted to speak right there, but....... just followed what I wanted to do... completed both of my responsibilities without communicating about it as they can see what I was doing.... Felt good for both of them, but believe me, none of them are happy and want to clear the glitch. Now removing that glitch has only one solution to it, speak the unspoken words to each other and clear it off man.... whats so egoistic about it.... we are Friends, and S**t happens....
Now be it my Attitude or My Ego or my trait of being silent and doing what I want to do.... I dont know... I really dont... but I dont really care of what people think about me.. I just wanna be known as a good human being from my act.. Dont wanna hurt anyone, give my best to whoever requires it..
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Just a thought - SIMPLICITY
"IT'S SO SIMPLE TO BE HAPPY... BUT IT'S SO HARD TO BE SIMPLE.."
I stole this quote from somewhere... but it actually made me think deep inside... We try to be happy every moment, the question is.. are we??? and in a similar way.. we try to be simple.. but we aint..
Running behind the world and dreams we forget to be simple. This reminded me of an instance where I was with my dad goin on our Bajaj super, I noticed a man gong with a small bag, wearing the chappals and simple kurta pajama walking on the pavement besides the road. My dad stopped by him and started talking to him. He looked to me as a guy whom my dad knows for some reason. They had a conversation for a while and then we moved, I was sitting silent, after sometime my dad asked me if I recognized the person. I shook my head with a confusion. I was surprized to my dad's words, he is one of the renowned surgeon. He runs his NGO which is around 5 kms walk from his home. And most of the times he just walks to the place.
Now my mind is just becoming a whirlpool of questions as in what is simplicity? can a person be judged by his simplicity?
The questions move on.. and so m I........
I stole this quote from somewhere... but it actually made me think deep inside... We try to be happy every moment, the question is.. are we??? and in a similar way.. we try to be simple.. but we aint..
Running behind the world and dreams we forget to be simple. This reminded me of an instance where I was with my dad goin on our Bajaj super, I noticed a man gong with a small bag, wearing the chappals and simple kurta pajama walking on the pavement besides the road. My dad stopped by him and started talking to him. He looked to me as a guy whom my dad knows for some reason. They had a conversation for a while and then we moved, I was sitting silent, after sometime my dad asked me if I recognized the person. I shook my head with a confusion. I was surprized to my dad's words, he is one of the renowned surgeon. He runs his NGO which is around 5 kms walk from his home. And most of the times he just walks to the place.
Now my mind is just becoming a whirlpool of questions as in what is simplicity? can a person be judged by his simplicity?
The questions move on.. and so m I........
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Dreaming.........
I was nicely sleeping……
Woke up dreaming….
Realized that it was just 6 in morning….
And that day I wasn’t working….
So I just snoozed the alarm which was buzzing….
And went off sleeping….
My sleep got disturbed with the phone which was ringing….
Saw that it’s late in morning.….
Noticed that it was my frnd who was calling….
Picked up the call smiling….
And started talking….
Her voice sounded exciting….
And I woke up listening….
She told me something which was quite enthusiazing….
The news was that I’ve won a ford mustang gt in the competition of running….
This happened last evening….
I jumped off the bed shouting….
Suddenly felt falling and dissolving….
Felt like somebody is calling me shaking….
I open my eyes and smiled….
Because I was just Dreaming…….
Woke up dreaming….
Realized that it was just 6 in morning….
And that day I wasn’t working….
So I just snoozed the alarm which was buzzing….
And went off sleeping….
My sleep got disturbed with the phone which was ringing….
Saw that it’s late in morning.….
Noticed that it was my frnd who was calling….
Picked up the call smiling….
And started talking….
Her voice sounded exciting….
And I woke up listening….
She told me something which was quite enthusiazing….
The news was that I’ve won a ford mustang gt in the competition of running….
This happened last evening….
I jumped off the bed shouting….
Suddenly felt falling and dissolving….
Felt like somebody is calling me shaking….
I open my eyes and smiled….
Because I was just Dreaming…….
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
A Lonely Ride.....
23rd Novenber 2008..a beautiful morning, got up early some how.. went to the balcony and could see that the drizzling has not stopped till now which started Friday afternoon.. felt really excited, quickly packed ma quick essentials [first aid, water and a swiss knife] in a bag, picked up ma jacket, riding gloves and helmet.. reached the bike and the security guard was already awake and surprised to see me so early, i gave him a smile and took my bike ready to hit the road.. wasnt decided whr m heading to.. i could see some of the early morning enthusiast jogging with some music in their ears., i reached the big bazar (old madras road), decided to go to Nandi hills..
So took the old madras road.. was hardly able to see the road because of the high beams from the trucks and buses rushing towards the destination in Bangalore.. i kept going on.. the cold breeze was making me more and more enthusiastic to speed up but i was on a cool 60 kmph.. took the diversion on outer ring road and there i could see a few vehicles heading towards somewhere.. i kept going and stopped at a signal with noone besides me, was able to see a few ppl waiting for their buses, and staring at me as if m a fool to stop by at an empty signal.. but i ignored them and stared at the signal which was still red... then i looked into the rear view mirror and could see a car coming up, it stopped by with me.. may be ashamed to see me standing and following the traffic rules.. i gazed at the driver once, and the signal was green... twisted the accelerator and i was zapping at 80 kmph.. thr after was no signal which was red.. reached hebbal bridge crossing a lots of trucks crawling to get out of the city.. took a right turn and thr I was on the Hyderabad highway.. a 6 lane with no hurdles... i could see a lot of cars full of luggage and zooming towards airport..
I raced with a few of them keeping the lane sense... i was at 100 kmph and I could feel ppl in car looking at me and thinking where this lonely rider is upto early in morning.. it was still dark but the lights were well lit and the roads were clear.. I overtook many of those cars and reached the BIAL deviation and could feel ppl bidding me safe journey ahead.. i kept moving.. here after thr were not many ppl on the road and the lanes were just empty as if saying c'mon test ur skills on me.. lets see wht u got... i had the max of ma accelerator and was now at the max of my bike 110 kmph.. could see a speed breaker [which i think are more of the machine breaker then a speed breaker].. and I zapped again.. as i noticed i already covered 50 kms and could see the “Nandi Hills 24 kms” road post.. i felt happy as i was reaching my destination.. I kept moving took the left turn off the hyderabad highway and moved ahead.. it was dwan now and the village ppl were already out meeting everybody, a few of them buying stuffs at the grocery stores and others just chit chatting.. a few more turns and i was on the ghat section. the road was quite and calm and it was still drizzling a lil... on the way i could see a few hills which were wearing the hat of clouds and nothing was visible over them.. as I rode uphill i could see a lot of biker groups having fun on the boundaries and taking pics... they glanced at me trying to recognize me [well i might hv knew some of them].. but i moved ahead and turns after turns i kept passing ppl and overtaking cars, there was a lil of fog on the road and it kept getting dense as i was moving up and up and up.. and finally i reached the parking place of nandi hills from where u need to walk up to the hanuman temple on top of the hill....
Parked my bike took the ticket to enter... and i guess i was the only one to walk up there... as other few groups were in car and they took it inside which is allowed.. it was a pleasant climate, i put some music in ma ears and kept moving.. i could feel that it was no more drizzling but water was dripping from the trees which were moist because of the clouds.. reached the top of the hill.. aaahhhh.. it was an amazing view.. nothing was visible below a certain limit.. and this place was completely dry as i was above the clouds.. found myself a place to sit which was near to an edge... i could feel the cold breeze get into me.. i felt blessed and closed my eyes for a few minutes to feel it.... there were a few groups roaming here and there and having fun.. a few couple trying to get a lil cozy in cold but feeling akward with the others around.... i could see the clouds travel to find another destination.... i stayed there for sometime enjoying the morning breeze.. the sun gave us a glance for a moment above the could which was felt by the quick heat on the skin but it dint come out of them... may be he is trying to laze around for today... now everyone could see others properly as the dense could already moved ahead and i could see that the two couples had found themselves the place to get cozy and felt happy for them... on glancing at the watch i noticed that it was 8, i decided to head bak home..
Walked bak to bike and headed bak.. found a few photography enthusiast with big big cameras taking the pics... found a few cyclists who were riding down the hill. waved at them and moved ahead and thr i was on beautiful 6 lane hyderabad highway again... i zapped my bike till i reached devanhalli after which the traffic was dense... but i managed to slide between the big machines and soon reached my home bak... felt so fresh after having a peace ride totally away from the city life......
So took the old madras road.. was hardly able to see the road because of the high beams from the trucks and buses rushing towards the destination in Bangalore.. i kept going on.. the cold breeze was making me more and more enthusiastic to speed up but i was on a cool 60 kmph.. took the diversion on outer ring road and there i could see a few vehicles heading towards somewhere.. i kept going and stopped at a signal with noone besides me, was able to see a few ppl waiting for their buses, and staring at me as if m a fool to stop by at an empty signal.. but i ignored them and stared at the signal which was still red... then i looked into the rear view mirror and could see a car coming up, it stopped by with me.. may be ashamed to see me standing and following the traffic rules.. i gazed at the driver once, and the signal was green... twisted the accelerator and i was zapping at 80 kmph.. thr after was no signal which was red.. reached hebbal bridge crossing a lots of trucks crawling to get out of the city.. took a right turn and thr I was on the Hyderabad highway.. a 6 lane with no hurdles... i could see a lot of cars full of luggage and zooming towards airport..
I raced with a few of them keeping the lane sense... i was at 100 kmph and I could feel ppl in car looking at me and thinking where this lonely rider is upto early in morning.. it was still dark but the lights were well lit and the roads were clear.. I overtook many of those cars and reached the BIAL deviation and could feel ppl bidding me safe journey ahead.. i kept moving.. here after thr were not many ppl on the road and the lanes were just empty as if saying c'mon test ur skills on me.. lets see wht u got... i had the max of ma accelerator and was now at the max of my bike 110 kmph.. could see a speed breaker [which i think are more of the machine breaker then a speed breaker].. and I zapped again.. as i noticed i already covered 50 kms and could see the “Nandi Hills 24 kms” road post.. i felt happy as i was reaching my destination.. I kept moving took the left turn off the hyderabad highway and moved ahead.. it was dwan now and the village ppl were already out meeting everybody, a few of them buying stuffs at the grocery stores and others just chit chatting.. a few more turns and i was on the ghat section. the road was quite and calm and it was still drizzling a lil... on the way i could see a few hills which were wearing the hat of clouds and nothing was visible over them.. as I rode uphill i could see a lot of biker groups having fun on the boundaries and taking pics... they glanced at me trying to recognize me [well i might hv knew some of them].. but i moved ahead and turns after turns i kept passing ppl and overtaking cars, there was a lil of fog on the road and it kept getting dense as i was moving up and up and up.. and finally i reached the parking place of nandi hills from where u need to walk up to the hanuman temple on top of the hill....
Parked my bike took the ticket to enter... and i guess i was the only one to walk up there... as other few groups were in car and they took it inside which is allowed.. it was a pleasant climate, i put some music in ma ears and kept moving.. i could feel that it was no more drizzling but water was dripping from the trees which were moist because of the clouds.. reached the top of the hill.. aaahhhh.. it was an amazing view.. nothing was visible below a certain limit.. and this place was completely dry as i was above the clouds.. found myself a place to sit which was near to an edge... i could feel the cold breeze get into me.. i felt blessed and closed my eyes for a few minutes to feel it.... there were a few groups roaming here and there and having fun.. a few couple trying to get a lil cozy in cold but feeling akward with the others around.... i could see the clouds travel to find another destination.... i stayed there for sometime enjoying the morning breeze.. the sun gave us a glance for a moment above the could which was felt by the quick heat on the skin but it dint come out of them... may be he is trying to laze around for today... now everyone could see others properly as the dense could already moved ahead and i could see that the two couples had found themselves the place to get cozy and felt happy for them... on glancing at the watch i noticed that it was 8, i decided to head bak home..
Walked bak to bike and headed bak.. found a few photography enthusiast with big big cameras taking the pics... found a few cyclists who were riding down the hill. waved at them and moved ahead and thr i was on beautiful 6 lane hyderabad highway again... i zapped my bike till i reached devanhalli after which the traffic was dense... but i managed to slide between the big machines and soon reached my home bak... felt so fresh after having a peace ride totally away from the city life......
Monday, October 20, 2008
Complications.....
Life sometimes seems to be so complicated.... I wonder it is complicated or we are making it complicated.
Some times u meet people and just get attracted to them and sometimes u meet ppl you r close to and feel, what the hell m i doing here??...
The society has made things so complicated that we hv to think twice to do something, each religion blames the other one for something.. in college they fell in love with out any discrimination, but society makes it dificult for them to live into it... so who's the culprit here.. society or the individuals..
We say that individuals build up the society, if it is so then why so many complications... ppl say something but act differently... If i do something which is in my interest and not of the society, they say i m crazy.. don't I have the right to live as I wish to...
Now here i find another prob, we just think about ourselves and want the things to happen as we want.... but we shud be aware that not everything works as we want it to... and i feel relieved adjusting (known as compromises) to the situation.. but a dissatisfaction is always there that why is it not the way we want it to be...
Some times u meet people and just get attracted to them and sometimes u meet ppl you r close to and feel, what the hell m i doing here??...
The society has made things so complicated that we hv to think twice to do something, each religion blames the other one for something.. in college they fell in love with out any discrimination, but society makes it dificult for them to live into it... so who's the culprit here.. society or the individuals..
We say that individuals build up the society, if it is so then why so many complications... ppl say something but act differently... If i do something which is in my interest and not of the society, they say i m crazy.. don't I have the right to live as I wish to...
Now here i find another prob, we just think about ourselves and want the things to happen as we want.... but we shud be aware that not everything works as we want it to... and i feel relieved adjusting (known as compromises) to the situation.. but a dissatisfaction is always there that why is it not the way we want it to be...
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Roller Coaster Ride.......
Hi,Have u people ever been on a nice Roler Coaster ride... in Bangalore.... i think we got one nice in wonderla.. or one in Fun world.. but.. i'm not talking about those.. i'm here talking about my roller coaster ride in an Auto in Bangalore. Generally i use my Bike to go to different places, but unfortunately sometime if i have to catch an auto to go somewhere, i just pray god that i reach home safely. I dont know how they learn to drive it, but they really drive very rash, many times i get scared that they are going to hit the vehicle in front or side and they really dont think if the customer is comfortable or not, and not even this the charges for this Ride is also different. If u daily travel the same distance taking the same route, i bet it will not cost u same everyday, this i'm not saying for 2-5 rs, but the difference can be more than 15-20 rs. and even the kms. I go to office from IIPM koramangla to infantry road on bike and its exactly 7 kms to and 8-8.5 kms fro. But one day i happened to take an auto (electronic meter) on the way back and guess how much his meter showed me when i reached back from the same route, it was 12 kms. i was shocked, and the auto guy started debating on this to me, and this is really Hectic.
Dont know when this system is going to change. And have u ever realized that the number of Autos are increasing day by day. When i satnd on a Signal, just look around u, i'm sure there wil be atleast 10 autos around u.
Most amount of Pollution is also actually done by autos only. Noone takes an action against them... why...???
Anyways i dont think its ever going to be better... huh...
Dont know when this system is going to change. And have u ever realized that the number of Autos are increasing day by day. When i satnd on a Signal, just look around u, i'm sure there wil be atleast 10 autos around u.
Most amount of Pollution is also actually done by autos only. Noone takes an action against them... why...???
Anyways i dont think its ever going to be better... huh...
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