Unspoken Words vs Silence

I've always wondered “What is so different about the unspoken words and silence?”

Is it really important to speak something then remain silent, ALWAYS? I m confused.. totally confused.. does it really make a difference or makes things worst...

Thought about this a lot, only thing which came to my mind is.. depends on the situation. If it is something which could make the relations bitter, which we do not want, its always better to be silent and be SILENT... if your loved once know you.. they will understand it.. if they dont, ur words will only be creating a hitch in them about it.

I have always realized that it is so difficult to maintain a relation, may it be parents, siblings, friends or lover.

With parents you fight, you care, without even thinking if something happens will they come back to you or vice versa, in majority of the cases its same with siblings. Lover, you can always sit with them and clear the situation, if they trust in you, would definitely respect your words. Then why is it so different with friends and ….. Why is that sometimes we loose our mind and do not respect the words and emotions of a friend, being a very good friend...

If there is an argument within the friends, where you do not wanna be partial to any of them, neither do loose the trust within any of them, and you have a responsibility to be adhered to specific to one of them followed by another one with other and the so called argument is all about this responsibility, what would one do? I believe in “Sometimes we need to take tough decisions”. People think that the opposite person has not thought about anything, is it really true? I dont think so, it was just that I dint wanted to be partial, and take the side of one.

I wanted to speak right there, but....... just followed what I wanted to do... completed both of my responsibilities without communicating about it as they can see what I was doing.... Felt good for both of them, but believe me, none of them are happy and want to clear the glitch. Now removing that glitch has only one solution to it, speak the unspoken words to each other and clear it off man.... whats so egoistic about it.... we are Friends, and S**t happens....

Now be it my Attitude or My Ego or my trait of being silent and doing what I want to do.... I dont know... I really dont... but I dont really care of what people think about me.. I just wanna be known as a good human being from my act.. Dont wanna hurt anyone, give my best to whoever requires it..

A Lonely Ride.....

23rd Novenber 2008..a beautiful morning, got up early some how.. went to the balcony and could see that the drizzling has not stopped till now which started Friday afternoon.. felt really excited, quickly packed ma quick essentials [first aid, water and a swiss knife] in a bag, picked up ma jacket, riding gloves and helmet.. reached the bike and the security guard was already awake and surprised to see me so early, i gave him a smile and took my bike ready to hit the road.. wasnt decided whr m heading to.. i could see some of the early morning enthusiast jogging with some music in their ears., i reached the big bazar (old madras road), decided to go to Nandi hills..

So took the old madras road.. was hardly able to see the road because of the high beams from the trucks and buses rushing towards the destination in Bangalore.. i kept going on.. the cold breeze was making me more and more enthusiastic to speed up but i was on a cool 60 kmph.. took the diversion on outer ring road and there i could see a few vehicles heading towards somewhere.. i kept going and stopped at a signal with noone besides me, was able to see a few ppl waiting for their buses, and staring at me as if m a fool to stop by at an empty signal.. but i ignored them and stared at the signal which was still red... then i looked into the rear view mirror and could see a car coming up, it stopped by with me.. may be ashamed to see me standing and following the traffic rules.. i gazed at the driver once, and the signal was green... twisted the accelerator and i was zapping at 80 kmph.. thr after was no signal which was red.. reached hebbal bridge crossing a lots of trucks crawling to get out of the city.. took a right turn and thr I was on the Hyderabad highway.. a 6 lane with no hurdles... i could see a lot of cars full of luggage and zooming towards airport..

I raced with a few of them keeping the lane sense... i was at 100 kmph and I could feel ppl in car looking at me and thinking where this lonely rider is upto early in morning.. it was still dark but the lights were well lit and the roads were clear.. I overtook many of those cars and reached the BIAL deviation and could feel ppl bidding me safe journey ahead.. i kept moving.. here after thr were not many ppl on the road and the lanes were just empty as if saying c'mon test ur skills on me.. lets see wht u got... i had the max of ma accelerator and was now at the max of my bike 110 kmph.. could see a speed breaker [which i think are more of the machine breaker then a speed breaker].. and I zapped again.. as i noticed i already covered 50 kms and could see the “Nandi Hills 24 kms” road post.. i felt happy as i was reaching my destination.. I kept moving took the left turn off the hyderabad highway and moved ahead.. it was dwan now and the village ppl were already out meeting everybody, a few of them buying stuffs at the grocery stores and others just chit chatting.. a few more turns and i was on the ghat section. the road was quite and calm and it was still drizzling a lil... on the way i could see a few hills which were wearing the hat of clouds and nothing was visible over them.. as I rode uphill i could see a lot of biker groups having fun on the boundaries and taking pics... they glanced at me trying to recognize me [well i might hv knew some of them].. but i moved ahead and turns after turns i kept passing ppl and overtaking cars, there was a lil of fog on the road and it kept getting dense as i was moving up and up and up.. and finally i reached the parking place of nandi hills from where u need to walk up to the hanuman temple on top of the hill....

Parked my bike took the ticket to enter... and i guess i was the only one to walk up there... as other few groups were in car and they took it inside which is allowed.. it was a pleasant climate, i put some music in ma ears and kept moving.. i could feel that it was no more drizzling but water was dripping from the trees which were moist because of the clouds.. reached the top of the hill.. aaahhhh.. it was an amazing view.. nothing was visible below a certain limit.. and this place was completely dry as i was above the clouds.. found myself a place to sit which was near to an edge... i could feel the cold breeze get into me.. i felt blessed and closed my eyes for a few minutes to feel it.... there were a few groups roaming here and there and having fun.. a few couple trying to get a lil cozy in cold but feeling akward with the others around.... i could see the clouds travel to find another destination.... i stayed there for sometime enjoying the morning breeze.. the sun gave us a glance for a moment above the could which was felt by the quick heat on the skin but it dint come out of them... may be he is trying to laze around for today... now everyone could see others properly as the dense could already moved ahead and i could see that the two couples had found themselves the place to get cozy and felt happy for them... on glancing at the watch i noticed that it was 8, i decided to head bak home..

Walked bak to bike and headed bak.. found a few photography enthusiast with big big cameras taking the pics... found a few cyclists who were riding down the hill. waved at them and moved ahead and thr i was on beautiful 6 lane hyderabad highway again... i zapped my bike till i reached devanhalli after which the traffic was dense... but i managed to slide between the big machines and soon reached my home bak... felt so fresh after having a peace ride totally away from the city life......